Howoften have you have you considered yourself tolerant and good, thenout of nowhere something happens that has you recoiling, grittingyour teeth, fuming to lash out at the person who has upset you? Tobe tolerant dear ones, it is necessary to comprehend what tolerancemeans. Tolerance comes with the understanding that you allow, bothinward and outward of others to be different from you, that it isokay if others have different beliefs than your own and may notfollow your way of thinking. You have experienced many times inyour life already where tolerance was required . But what usuallyoccurs is one dear soul pressures another to be more patient, to bemore tolerant that is defensive. No one is perfect. Everyone makesmistakes and has suffered upset and turmoil. When you work onimproving your own self, you will see that there are others justlike you going through the similar changes. Don't be so quick tojudge, acknowledge your sameness. Let your differences bring youtogether, instead of further apart.

 

   你有多經常認為自己是寬容的和善良的,然後突然地一些事情發生衝擊了你,讓你咬牙切齒,憤怒評擊讓你生氣的人?寬容,親愛的一們,需要去明白寬容的含義。寬容伴隨著你允許,內在和外在,他人與你不同的理解而來---如果他人擁有和你不一樣的信仰,可能不會跟隨你的思考方式是可以的。你在生活中已經體驗了許多次寬容被需要的地方。但通常發生的是一個親愛的靈魂壓迫另一個去變得更加有耐心,更加寬容(防禦性的)。沒人是完美的。每個人都會犯錯,都會遭受生氣和混亂。當你致力於提高自己,你會看到有著和你一樣的人在經歷類似的改變。不要太快地去評判,承認你的千篇一律。讓你們的不同將你們帶到一起,而不是進一步的分離。

 

The more intolerant you become, the more your egotakes over and you become more self-centered. When you takemeasures to reduce your own intolerance, you are really lighteningyour spiritual pressure and burden which removes any inner blockagepertaining to your path. When you have issues regarding how yourelate with others, you begin by looking at your inner self,exploring and discovering where the upset came from. Many times allthe other person did was trigger something that was simmering for along time to come to the surface. When disharmony makes itselfknown, it's an opportunity for you to turn that around and bringharmony back into your life. When you feel disharmonic, quite oftenyou display antipathy towards the ones that upset you or at bestneutrality. But when you focus on healing and dissolvingintolerance, your confusion turns into clarity and your perceptionchanges, it becomes brighter and more knowing.

 

   你變得越難以容忍,你的小我就會越多地接管,你變得更多以自我為中心。當你採取措施去減少你的無法容忍,你真正地減少了你的精神壓力和負擔,這會移除任何內部的堵塞。當你與他人相處有問題,你開始看入內心,探索和發現憤怒的來源。很多時候其他人所做的其實是觸發了醞釀很久將要來到表面的東西。當不和諧展現自身,這是一個機遇去轉個彎,把和諧帶回生活。當你感到不和諧,你經常對讓你生氣的人感到反感或中立。當你專注於療愈並溶解無法容忍,你的混亂變得清晰,你的感知改變,它變得更加明亮,更多地知曉。

 

When you go inward to explore what it is that upsets you,you find you have many blemishes in your attitude and it is thoseblemishes that will help you turn things around and become moretolerant of others, but first you need to become tolerant ofyourself. How does one become tolerant of themselves? To be moretolerant of yourself, you need to accept what your personallimitations are in regards to your mental, emotional, and physicalfaculties. When you apply tolerance towards yourself you arehelping yourself improve in many areas as you come face-to -facewith your truth. As long as continue to not accept any unchangeablepart of yourself you will not be able to accept others.

 

   當你進入內在去探索什麼讓你生氣,你發現自己態度中的許多污點,正是那些污點幫助了你扭轉事物,對他人變得更加寬容,但首先你需要對自己寬容。一個人如何對自己寬容?要對自己更加地寬容,你需要接納你的個人局限,關於你情感,精神和身體上的能力。當你對自己應用寬容,你在幫助自己在許多領域中提高,隨著你面對你的真理。只要繼續不接納你任何千古不變的部分,你就無法接納他人。

 

It is essential dear ones to learn what it is you canand want to change and what it is that is unchangeable and acceptwho you are completely. You need to ask yourself some penetratingquestions that will require your absolute honesty: Are the changesyou are to make really, truly worth your time and effort? Onequestion may lead to another offering different answers and youchoose what is agreeable with your heart, something you are willingto commit to follow through in order to make a positivedifference.

 

   親愛的一們,很重要去學習你可以和想要改變什麼,什麼是不能改變的並完全地接納你的所是。你需要問自己一些尖銳的問題,需要你絕對誠實的:你要做出的改變,是否值得你的時間和精力?一個會導向另一個的問題,提供不同的答案,你選擇你的心感到愉快的,你願意堅持到底的,以便做出積極的影響。

 

When you tackle the aspects of yourself the needchanging, by applying an attitude of tolerance towards your actionsand choices you will encourage a greater possibility of completingthose changes. The moment you become intolerant, you are simplyadding more pressure and preventing any change from taking place.If you can truly accept yourself, then you can accept all ofyourself, even in the way you do things in order to become moretolerant of others.

 

   當你解決你需要改變的買那些,通過對自己的行為和選擇應用一個寬容的態度,你會鼓勵一個完成那些改變的更大的可能性。你變得無法忍受的時刻,你只是添加了更多的壓力,阻止了任何改變的發生。如果你能真正地接納自己,你就可以接納自己所有的面向,即使在你為了變得對他人更加寬容的行事方式中。

 

Asyou take the time to evaluate what it is in you that could use somechange and more patience, determine if you can allow others,including those in your family to be who they are, accepting themfor the differences they bring? Are you able to allow your partnerto be his or herself and not try to reform their beliefs and way ofliving? If you are trying to change how your friends or familylives, become their role model. Demonstrate through your actions,choices and words why following your path or a path similar isbeneficial to them, let them choose without force and if they likebeing where they are then love them for being who they are, just asthey are.

 

   隨著你花時間評估你之內甚麼需要一些改變,需要更多的耐心,決定你是否可以允許他人,包括家里人去成為自己的所是,接納他們的不同?你能允許自己伴侶成為自己的所是而不試圖改變他/她的信仰和生活方式嗎?如果你試圖改變自己朋友或家人的生活方式,去成為他們的榜樣。通過你的行為,選擇和話語展示為什麼跟隨你的道路或一條類似的道路,有益於他們的,讓他們選擇,沒有壓迫地,他們是否喜歡自己的所處之地,然後愛他們的所是,如他們的所是。

 

Understand dear ones, intolerance does not encouragelove, it raises animosity and is known to waste the precious energyof those it inhabits like a poison. When you let go of anintolerant attitude what you are doing dear ones is giftingyourself a great gift of patience, understanding and acceptancetowards others, regardless what label or group they belong to. Youare able to see that they too are simply trying to get throughtheir day, their life in the best way possible. They too might notmake the best choices all of the time, they are just trying to dowhat is best for them. Recognizing the humanness in each other,seeing that you are more the same than different will help bringyou together instead of further apart.

 

   明白,親愛的一們,無法容忍並不鼓勵愛,它升起仇恨,它就像一個毒藥浪費它所棲息之人的寶貴能量。當你放下無法容忍的態度,你在做的,親愛的一們,就是賜予一個偉大的耐心、理解和接納的禮物,無論他們擁有什麼標籤或從屬於什麼團體。你能夠看到他們也只是試圖過生活,在最好的方式中。他們可能不會總是做出最好的選擇,他們只是試圖去做對他們來說最好的。認識到彼此的人性,看到你們的相同處會幫助帶你們走到一起而不是進一步的分離。

 

Deciding to become more tolerant is more than an activechoice, it's also a deliverance from old stagnant ways of being andmoves you towards being able to observe more acute intoleranceaspects that might be lurking and waiting to raise its ugly headinside of you. To see intolerance more clearly , you need to becomeaware of its effects on you. When you become aware of howintolerance makes you feel, then you are more observant of thethoughts and feelings that pass through you. Tell yourself dearones that you are more than any self-centered thought or feeling .Intolerance may be a visitor to your consciousness, but it doesn'thave to claim you or stay with you.

 

   決定變得更加寬容不僅僅是一個積極的選擇,這還是從舊的停滯的存在方式中解脫,讓你能夠觀察到更多急性的無法容忍面向---在你之內潛伏,等待著抬起它醜陋面孔的。要更加清晰地看到無法容忍,你需要意識到它對你產生的影響。當你意識到無法容忍對你造成的感受,你就更能觀察通過你的想法和感受。親愛的一們,告訴自己你不僅僅是任何以自我為中心的想法或感受。無法容忍可能是對你意識的一個遊客,但它不需要宣稱是你或與你待在一起。

 

Forthose on a spiritual path, does it matter if you are tolerant ornot? It is hard to move forward positively while harboring venomousthoughts and attitudes towards others. To move in the directionyour heart is taking you that is aligned with the Heart of God, thepurer your heart is the purer your journey becomes. Cultivati​​ng apure heart is necessary dear ones if you want to attain deeperlevels of consciousness and connectedness with God. Whenever youpermit intolerance to poison you, you are also creating a blockagein your connection with God. Learning to become patient andtolerant with one's self is a lot of work and a great challenge. Itis one that is on-going and requires daily upkeep, but providesmany long-lasting rewards. As we near the end of our transmission,think about where in your life you can become more tolerant andpatient. Not only will you be doing yourself a whole lot of good,your relationships and interactions with others will also benefitfor the better.

 

   對於那些處於靈性道路上的人,你寬容與否重要嗎?帶著有毒的想法和態度(朝向他人的)想要積極地前進是很難的。朝向你的心帶你前往的地方就是與神之心對齊,你的心越純淨,你的旅程會越純淨。培養一顆純淨之心很重要,親愛的一們,如果你想要獲得更深的意識層次和與神的連通性。當你許可無法容忍毒害你,你也在與神的連接中創造了一個堵塞。學習對自己擁有耐心和寬容需要大量的工作,是一個巨大的挑戰。它是一個不斷進行,需要日常維護的工作,但會提供許多長期的回報。隨著我們接近傳訊的尾聲,想想生活中哪裡你可以變得更加寬容和耐心。這不僅會對你自己製造大量的益處,你的人際關係和與他人的交互也會受益。

 

原文:http://lightworkers.org/channeling/214115/working-tolerance

通靈:Julie Miller

翻譯:Nick Chan http://blog.sina.com.cn/s/blog_bd4aebd60102vncg.html

 

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